A secret, as outlined by Webster, is something hidden, kept from view, not recognized, or exposed only to the initiated.
This year is already revealing secrets for the ?initiated ?those among us inducted into life?s membership through trial by fire. One is in the example of learning to accept imperfection, whether in things, circumstances, or folk. Ariel Ford?s latest book Wabi Sabi Love, tells about the traditional Japanese custom, which honors all things, including the old, the worn, and the imperfect. For example, if a treasured vase had a crack down the middle, a Japanese museum would place it on a pedestal and shine a focus on it.
We will be able to value the cracks in ourselves and our relations in the same way.
My ma was known for her needlework and her gorgeous knitting. I might watch as her fingers, bent and knobby from rheumatism, would move with expert grace across soft rows of yarn, the steady rhythm of clicking needles forming a sweater for me. Just before getting to the end, she would rip it all apart and restart. I might protest, informing her it looked perfect to me. ?No,? she would reply. ?I can see my mistake.?
Discovering the most notable difference between what is to be celebrated, or what needs to change can be transformational and reflective of a new inner harmony according to the law of attraction and alternative sources. Techniques frequently lie in the paradox, the riddle, the poser. Life holds many techniques, often missed. Here are just seven:
Secret 1: Softly, make room for imperfection, in folk, or in yourself. Shine light on your situation with the beam of your acknowledgment. Therapist, Carl Rogers asserts, ?The curious absurdity is that when I accept myself just as I am , then I can change.?
Secret 2: Learn to live life thru the senses, engaging life on its terms. Allow for life to talk to you. Take action of what is in front of you. Do not look back with regret or self-doubt.
Secret 3: Become whole-brained, by learning how to be ambidextrous. Practice using your non-dominant hand. Studies are showing great results for all sorts of things from diabetes, to possible prevention of the start of Alzheimer?s to an overall improvement in the standard of life.
Secret 4: Change your life by mastering your feelings. A Chinese Expression says: Control the feelings or they'll control you. A little gland, the Amygdala in our brain, was for our defence against saber-toothed tigers. We still need to be in a position to sense danger, but wrath is pinching your life. Learn to let go by controlling the noise inside your head. Learn how to be calm.
Secret 5: Take boredom to a kind of art. Become a wiz at one thing and the results will pay out dividends in delightful and unexpected possibilities. If you are bored, you actually know plenty about something.
Secret 6: If you happen to feel you have lost yourself in a positive relationship, or it?s become poisonous, take a time-out, give yourself the gift of space. Folk report feeling like themselves again and wonder how they ever got so lost. Fresh and electrified thoughts for change will appear.
Secret 7: Redirect the energy behind your biggest fear, problem, or challenge and find a way to be grateful. Be consistent and watch for the evidence of this power.
Self acceptance is about getting started, doing your very best and feeling A1 about yourself. Today, my mummy may have used her knitting mistakes cleverly with sequins, or a colorful patch to celebrate the defect. I'm sure I'd have worn it with love ? Wabi Sabi style.
Beth Armiston is a self-worth coach who loves helping folks with goal setting.
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